Originally posted by Floris
Maybe now I am indeed gettings thing wrong from my side, but to be quite honest I am a little dissapointed in this reaction really. I don't know how many times I have emphasized in this thread that all my suggestions are meant to be constructive critism. I have probably -unintentionally- offended some people on a personal level (?) and it seems like my remarks are taken in this light from now on?
In my previous posting I tried to do everything to make my intentions as clear as possible. Apparently without much success? Really, I don't feel that's very fair to me now, actually.
Maybe if I had put a smiley behind my 'childish'-remark things wouldn't got to the point where it is now? In http://www.vbulletin.com/forum/showp...7&postcount=89 I did put that smiley in the last sentence to emphasize my remark is meant to be taken 'tongue in cheek'.
I also am a little dissapointed about the remarks that my postings are not seen as contributions really. I mean, come on. When you examine this thread I actually have put a lot of suggestions in here, in fact in the first pages of this thread most contributions are made by me. And you have take them into consideration and processed them in your builds, actually.
Really now, there surely must be another way to relate to each other? Taking things personally and reacting based on such feelings doesn't get us any further. I have put in my time and energy over and over again to emphazise my critical remarks are to help..... not to be taken as nit-picking.
This shouldn't have been neccesarry. It's not fair to yourself and actually -by now- also not to me. I really hope constructive critism and suggestions (which I have always put an enormous amount of time and energy in actually, mainly overhere in 'Suggestions and Feedback' at Vbulletin.com) are valued as such by the Jelsoft Team. They are only intended to make things better and help each other out.... and not to be taken personally.
Really sorry some people feel this way, regardless of any -constant- effort to emphasize the intentions. But it's not my responsability and -apparently- trying to explain myself doesn't seem to help that much. This leads to nowhere. So, unfortunately, I have to decide to stop making suggestions in this particular thread, unless things are -finally- taking out of a personal context.
I wish you all the best with the much anticipated dutch translation.
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